Did you know...
In a lot of pornography, there is no pubic hair. Everything is bare, clean-shaven for the world to see ... or so my sources tell me. Why do I feel the need to share this, you might wonder? Among some of the loved ones of addicts I've spoken to, excessive shaving was a dead give-away in their marriage--right in front of their faces! And they totally missed it. Because they didn't know. For those who are in tuned in to this cue, it can set off an alarm. It's a warning sign that something fishy might be going on. Not a guarantee, but maybe a little red flag. So, if your spouse/partner/addict is shaving things totally clean at what you think might be a random time (or if he/she requests that you start doing it out of the blue), maybe stop. Have a chat. Ask about porn.
Things like these are not pleasant to think about, but it is important to be educated and to know your enemy. Look it in the eye, and defeat it! So much of what happens on the pornography and sex addiction front happens in a dark, secretive manner. So, help me shine a spotlight on it! Let the world know it is NOT okay.
Because knowledge is power.
WOW ! LOL ! Did not wanna think about that - but you are soo right - knowledge is power. It makes me wonder. Thinking back...and now...I will pay a little more attention...
ReplyDeleteI read this article (http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201201/wiring-sexual-tastes-hairless-genitalsoops) earlier this year and this post made me think of it!
ReplyDeleteI am feeling so ashamed right now. Yesterday I shaved my pubic hair after years of telling my husband I never would. And then I stumbled across this and the article HX posted. My husband is also a sex addict and I just hadn't thought about how part of the reason he is interested in that is because he has rewired his brain through porn. The article was especially hard to read as it brings up problems that were why I originally refused to shave my hair and was offended when my husband brought it up (which was also before I knew about his addiction and porn use.) Thank you for the post...it's giving me a lot to think about...
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